[urgent]. How to get rid of a bridesmaid.

[Heaven]

rofl, go with MN's idea!

[ladybird11]

Good luck!

[delphmoon]

Once its done, its done. Don't think about it...just be straight out about it....you will feel 1 trillion times better once you have done it.

You can't have her in your wedding- she is already spoiling YOUR day...off with her head I say!

Just do it hun...

[Jellybean29]

This is your ONE day.
It is YOUR day.
Stuff anyone elses feelings, this is the one day you can be totally selfish (not that I think you are) and demand what you want!

You don't want to 1) have a bad day and 2) look back on wedding photos with her in them upset , just to please others.

I say, pour the wine, pick up the phone, say your piece and hangup and be proud for standing up for yourself

[Miss K]

I HATE MY SIL!!!! She is the same are we related

Ok so I've had to do something like this DH's mother invited her to my baby shower I just sent her a fb message saying " look I know you've been asked to attend my baby shower but sorry you are not invited" and left it at that and she never rocked up short and sweet always works! I never had her mobile number as I CANNOT stand her!

So why not try " Look I know you have been asked to be a bridesmaid to my wedding but unfortunately you are no longer needed, thanks for you willingness to be my bridesmaid it means alot" Pretty much slaps her in the face but also has a nice twist at the end You could also add please feel free to wear the dress still though HAHAHAHA!!